Thursday, February 26, 2009

So Confused

As you can probably tell by the fact that I'm posting at 12:30..........Paul is not here! I am so confused!! I had candles lit, made a great dinner, drank good wine, and he stayed to watch 3 movies! We leaned against each other on the couch, talked the whole time we were watching movies and had a great time. When he went to leave he asked if he could make me dinner on Friday night and also said he'll come and help paint my new place on Saturday. But then he didn't try to kiss me!!! I got a hug goodbye and that's all. I don't get it! I almost just kissed him but since he did ask to make dinner for me at his place I figured maybe he's more comfortable on his own turf.

**It also may have something to do with the fact that he's allergic to cats, and I have a cat, hence his eyes were itching and watering the whole time - yet he was still here for 4 1/2 hours!

My gut says he's into me, but what's with the no kiss? I'm quite frustrated. First I get a guy who's all over me that I don't want to kiss, now I have a guy who seems into me but didn't try to kiss me. It seemed like he wanted to but then he didn't. Maybe he's just a little shy. Why else would a guy hang out through 3 movies and an allergic reaction, ask to cook me dinner in 2 days, and offer to help paint my new place if he wasn't interested? Ok, no more over analyzing. I need my beauty sleep.

By the way, 5-10 inches on snow tomorrow in MN!!!! AAAAAHHHHHHHHH I hate winter.


A Balancing Act in Heels said...

LOL! Girl, you crack me up. I agree that you need to go to sleep and stop analyzing everything! :)

I think he's into you. [Who wouldn't be?] He was just trying to be gentleman! Next time you want a kiss, you just go on ahead and take the lead. :)

Good night dear!!

Nessa said...

He IS into you lol, he wouldn't stay for that long if he wasn't.. and maybe he's waiting for better timing for that kiss?? I think it shows he has more respect for you than that "can we at least makeout" dude. Don't worry the longer you wait the sweeter it will be..Keep us updated, if you dare to kiss and tell. ;)

Maggie said...

It seems you have allowed your expectations to rule over reality. You expected him to kiss you, and when he didn't then something must be wrong...He may not be confident about how YOU feel about him yet, and he doesn't want to get his heart broken either... so he's taking it slow. just a suggestion but next time instead of trying to figure everything out in advance, maybe you could just take things as they come and see what happens, Go to bed, you need some sleep. lol

Anonymous said...

You guys have been on a friendship basis and YOU have been opening your mind to the possibility of more, but he hasn't been inside your brain! Spend time together, be good friends and see what naturally happens. "Expectations" are keeping you from enjoying the relationships you have. Remember what your mother always said about "expectations" causing people a lot of trouble in their lives :)

Island Girl said...

I over analyze too! It's a terrible habit, but you are who you are,right?

If I were in your position I'd be having the same thoughts, however the outside perspective in me says, he was being a gentleman and that you should wait to see what Friday brings :)

Keep us posted!

casey. said...

give it a little more time to play out girl! this way you have something to look forward to as well.

[from what i see hes into you.]

you continue to make me chuckle with your dating tales.

ill be waiting for 'the kiss' story next. ;]

nikki said...

Relax babe. It sounds like he is definitely in to you, just testing the waters and taking things slow. I'd just roll with the punches.

Krystyn said...

I think he's being a polite gentleman and taking things slow! If he wasn't into you, I don't think he would offer to cook you dinner.